Summary
In this episode of Best Fails, host Alison Beckles engages with John Yarde, a Barbadian pastor and musician, who shared about the repercussions of a decision he made. John discusses the challenges of navigating the expectations of others while staying true to his values and beliefs. The conversation delves into the importance of support systems, self-reflection, resilience, and focusing on purpose in the midst of adversity. John also offers listeners valuable advice when facing tough decisions about their careers and personal lives.
Takeaways
- Public perception can greatly impact one’s career and mental health.
- Having a support system is essential during tough times.
- Creativity can be rekindled even after setbacks.
- Navigating public criticism requires strength and self-awareness.
- Building a reputation takes time, but it can be fragile.
- Adversity can open doors to new opportunities.
- Trusting in your convictions is vital for personal fulfilment.
- John also offers valuable advice for artists and individuals facing tough decisions about their careers and personal lives.
Sound Bites
- “I believe that I have a word.”
- “I want people to like what I do.”
- “I know I can create again.”
- “What are you willing to live for?”
Chapters
00:00- Introduction to John Yard and Community Impact
05:40- Navigating Failure and Supportive Relationships
11:02- The Journey of a Musician and Unexpected Challenges
24:02- Facing Criticism and Rebuilding Reputation
30:06- The Burden of Expectations
32:25- The Price of Progress
34:16- Navigating Community and Integrity
36:29- The Weight of Decisions
38:24- Finding Purpose in Adversity
41:52- The Role of Support Systems 47:50- Living for a Greater Purpose
John’s Profile
Reverend John, an esteemed pastor with almost a decade id experience, is a transformative leader and dedicated counselor for 4 years. He passionately fosters interpersonal relations, striving to build a community of individuals who positively impact their surroundings. As the pastor of Hope Church Barbados, John connects people to their destinies and each other.
Currently pursuing a master’s degree in counseling psychology with an emphasis in trauma crisis management at the Caribbean Nazarene College, John is committed to enhancing his skills for the betterment of his community. In his spare time, he finds joy in reading, paddleboarding, making music, and showcasing his culinary prowess in smoking beef brisket and pork ribs, among other delights.
John’s personal life is anchored in his marriage to Dr. Viberta, and together they share the joy of raising their son, Malachi
Connect with John
YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/@johnyardemusic
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamjohnyarde/
Episode Link
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2rmJjCPoxKc8HSSyfwNqLh?si=ec34b1ebe9a243a2
